Love Is Blind star Ben Mezzenga seemed surprised when Sara Carton said no at the altar, but she revealed that they had actually discussed their answers ahead of time. "I was shocked about that," Sara,

Love Is Blind” Season 8 stars Ben Mezzenga and Sara Carton have had an unusual journey during their time on the Netflix dating show. Back in the pods, the couple bonded before realizing a glaring difference between them.

Sara Carton agreed to keep seeing Ben Mezzenga after rejecting him at the altar on Love Is Blind for his seeming lack of engagement in anything with any depth -- among other relationship red flags -- only for him to ghost her a week or two later.

Love Is Blind Season 5 alum Jimmy Presnell got thrown in the midst of Ben Mezzenga and Sara Carton‘s confrontation at the Season 8 reunion special on March 9. During the sit-dow

Sara Carton took to Instagram on Monday, March 10, and laughed off Ben Mezzenga’s ‘under the bus’ moment from the ‘Love Is Blind’ reunion the night before

"We lived together for about a week or two, and then I got back to my home, and then he actually did drop me. He removed me from Find My Friends," Sara says.

Sara Carton tells PEOPLE she "was shocked" by Ben Mezzenga after 'Love Is Blind,' but says it gave her "the most clarity of who Ben is"

In Love is Blind season 8, Sara left Ben at the altar because he didn’t have an opinion on Black Lives Matter or the COVID vaccine, and because his church was too “traditional” and didn’t talk enough about LGBTQ 🤣 pic.twitter.com/NqpftX61Ms

Love Is Blind’s Ben and Sara Address TikTok Drama After Reunion (Exclusive) 'Love Is Blind's Sara Carton and Ben Mezzenga chat with ET after the season 8 reunion, streaming now on Netflix. Sara explains her decision to back out of their wedding,

Sara Carton tells PEOPLE she found herself "questioning if [Ben Mezzenga] was there for the right reasons" after several issues came to light, including his TikTok drama with an alleged ex and his You